Today is my daughter in law's birthday.
Lukas and Amy met at a church retreat playing games. They are still going to church and still playing.
Their
wedding was a celebration whose focus was on the two great
commandments.... love for God and love for their friends. Amy was
unconcerned about herself to the point that she was undecided about what
she would wear, and took a few possible outfits along. Amy and Lukas
helped make the fruit kabobs for the reception, hung twinkle lights in
the hall, hauled baskets of crayons for guests to draw on the tables,
and thanked each person for coming. She sang a song to him called Doubly Good to You. I have listened a dozen times already and the joy has not yet diminished.
They read their vows off their IPhones.
Vows To Amy
Here and now I promise,
surrounded by this community of family and friends
and in the presence of our God
That I will love you
I will serve you
I will defend you
and I will honor you.
I promise, with all the integrity that I have been granted
that I will choose you. Only you. Over and over again.
When life's path becomes uncertain and dark
I will stay by your side.
I will celebrate your success
and shoulder your discouragement.
I will feel your pain
and make your joy my own.
I will encourage your spirit
and make your adventures, Ours.
I will not forget the grace that has been given me - through you.
I promise all these things as long as we both shall live.
Words
do not adequately encompass the feeling of seeing your firstborn son
marry a woman who cherishes him. It is like trying to catch the downpour
of a tropical rain with a teacup. Amy loves Lukas. She honors him for
earning an honest wage, and longs to welcome him home after a hard day.
She thanks God for him.
I
know that God loves each person on this planet. I believe that those
relationships bring Him vast joy. Yet having felt the eruption of
ecstasy that bubbles up each time I hear Amy sing to Lukas, I glimpse
the possibility of a source of happiness that is more immense.
God's pleasure is still more resplendent when His children love each other.