Marriage Moats-Super Heroes
Published: Thu, 12/23/10
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![]() -2006 I'm not really sure how it started. I doubt anyone suspected how far the enthusiasm would spread. Considering the colliding pressures of end-of-the-year papers, graduation and a few weddings, it's remarkable that a scant half a hundred college students and their friends found the energy or the time to participate at all. But when the X-men movie opened at midnight last May, they were there... dressed as if they had walked off the full screen or the pages of a comic book. For weeks college men with bodies built for
wrestling had been prowling through thrift stores and dance studios for
just the right color leotards and trench coats. I was enlisted when the
sewing machine became the means for turning bright, tight t-shirts into
hero wear, and they dubbed me Edna of the Incredibles. When my son found
an abandoned wheelchair on the beach days before the opening, I knew
they were destined to succeed.
Although I witnessed much of the transformation, I'm still fuzzy about
some of the details. I saw them spray paint their feet, change their
hair and skin color, shave their heads and wrap themselves in Saran
Wrap. But how did they get knives to spring from their knuckles, or a
light to shine from an eyeball? Even though the movie itself is rather
sophisticated, I felt as if what was happening was in its essence very
simple. My four sons and five daughters have been swishing capes and
conquering dragons for two decades, and the world's children have been
at it even longer. Perhaps you have dabbled in championing the oppressed
as well, even if your only superpower is putting dinosaur band aids on a
little girl's knee.
The desire to be a hero burns like a pilot light in most human souls,
ready to ignite at any moment. We may think of ourselves as incredibly
unique in this potential for passion. Yet although the expression of
that passion may be specialized, its presence is not.
When we feel emblazoned to right the world's wrongs it is not because
no one before us ever tried. On the contrary, it is because Somebody
did. Twenty centuries ago the quintessential Hero wrapped Himself not in
leotards, but is swaddling cloths and came to earth. His cadre of
potencies includes Light, Mercy, Hope, Healing and Joy, the perfect
antidotes for the forces that have threatened the planet without pause.
In that eternal gesture of deliverance we are gifted with an experience
even more liberating that leaping across skyscrapers with an innocent
child tucked in our arms.
We get to be that child.
Photo by Andy Sullivan
www.caringformarriage.org
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