My daughter tells me that there are only a handful of stories in literature, told with myriad variations: the quest, the love story, rags to riches. I notice we keep telling and listening to the details, as they can siphon in our attention with an almost irresistible force. Will Elizabeth Bennett really marry Mr. Darcy? Will Cinderella finally escape her step mother? The characters themselves follow a pattern: the antagonist, the hero.
I remember when my husband's boss flew down to rescue our congregation thirty five years ago. I recall what I was wearing, how desperate I felt. The crisis we were surrounded by seemed epic, like none the church had ever seen. People were near mutiny over... the carpet. It was true that I had never seen this problem before, but I had an unspoken feeling from the bishop that this was one of a handful of stories that he had faced repeatedly: conflict about the building, laity vs pastor,
finances. I found it annoying that he could categorize our difficulties, as if they were merely a story being played out, and we were in predictable roles. But in my short years I too have seen those stories retold with creative caveats in other times and places. I have watched tempers flare over trees cut down, positions terminated, words misspoken, as if those circumstances would matter a whit in a hundred years or even three.
Marriages too seem to have a pool of stories that look incredibly unique when you are neck deep in them, but from a distance seem more like familiar themes: he/she doesn't understand me, this marriage is boring, she is angry/he is withdrawn. While I found it irritating to sense that someone knew the storyline of my life back in the first act, when I was still figuring out who the players were, looking over my shoulder it makes me feel... like there is a Director backstage. It helps to
believe that Dickens has a plan for Scrooge, and will not forget him on the way to Christmas morning. It is not especially prudent to remind the characters that Someone is producing your life, as we humans tend to be so feisty about freedom, but I suppose by the time you have created a few billion people you start to notice trends.
In the meantime, I want to be like Ebenezer. I hope I wake up in time to be generous.