Marriage Moats-Watching a School of Fish
Published: Sat, 08/28/10
| Marriage Moats | Caring for Marriage |
![]() I find it a thing of incredible beauty to simply watch a flock of birds in flight. There is no visible or audible (to me anyway) communication between them, and yet their fluid motion is a complex interaction of scores or hundreds of individual birds. How are they influenced by each other? Who is the leader? Is it a right brain, or a left brain activity? We humans do not seem to be able to manage the same coordinated movement, except through hours of practice with the drill team or marching band, and even then there is so often the amusing little oboe player out of step. Do we fancy ourselves more intelligent than the sparrows? Not one of them falls without their Heavenly Father knowing. Yet we balk at such complete submission to be led. Today, go together with your spouse to find some example in nature
of this miraculous susceptibility to be influenced. Find a flock of
birds, or a school of fish, a trail of ants, or a waddle of baby ducks.
Even the leaves of a great oak sway to the same breeze, don new colors
to the same invisible conductor, and silently dance to the ground at
the same undetectable signal. Watch their harmony of motion, their
oneness of life. It looks surprisingly stressless, in contrast to the
rugged individuality of our culture. Words may not be a part of today's
marriage moment. Just hold hands, look and listen.
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photo by Jenny Stein | |
