Marriage Moats- Unique vs Total

Published: Wed, 01/14/15

Marriage Moats

Caring for Marriage

Unique vs Total
Photo: Andy Sullivan  
Every day my computer tells me two numbers. One is the unique number of opens for Marriage Moats. The second is the total opens, which is always larger by about a hundred.

While I have never had anyone alive or virtual explain to me the difference, I have composed a story that I am attached to. When readers enjoy a moat, they forward it to someone they care about, and start a conversation. They open it too, and the total number grows. 

I have no proof that this is true.

But I cling to the image of dozens of interactions that I will never be privy to, as people savor an idea and share it. 

Maybe those of you who are more computer literate could correct me. But I am hesitant. 

There is a You Tube of a dog interacting with a baby in a jumper swing. The title is "Dog teaches baby to jump" and within that context I thoroughly enjoyed watching it. What a delightful interpretation, that he would want to encourage the furless baby to have fun. But in the comments I read that the dog is actually pouncing on the baby's shadow. Sigh. Not nearly as cute. I was happier with misinformation. 

So if it is merely a fluke of cookies, or bites, or whatever they are called, that causes the total opens to be larger than unique ones, leave me in my fantasy. I enjoy it. 



Love, 

Lori