A friend suggested a new app called Love Maps. It is designed by John Gottman and he has a slew of other interesting apps as well. I bought just a couple.
Love Maps is a kind of guessing game, and having only perused a dozen I am chagrined to notice how much I don't know. Thirty four years of marriage is a lot of
time for making inquiries, but apparently I have not made the best use of it.
Who is someone your partner greatly admires?
What is one of your partner's favorite books?
What is most missing from your partner's life right now?
What is your partner's favorite season?
There is another app
called Open Questions. It includes conversation starters like these.
What do you love about one of your relatives?
If there was money to give away how would you decide?
Where would you like to travel to?
Having used the scant minutes we had this morning before John left for work on less endearing subjects like
emptying the dishwasher, I am eager to try a few out tonight.
