Marriage Moats- Welcome

Published: Mon, 01/20/14

 
Marriage Moats

Caring for Marriage
Welcome
Perhaps Martin was one of the many people who welcomed Mandela a few weeks ago, when he woke up in a land with no more hate. 

There are cool things about this sculpture crafted in his honor. It will not be weathered by time, which is what he said about love. You cannot see the image except from a certain spot on the ground. Everywhere else it just seems like random steel. The piece is made of bars to represent the years he spent behind them. I love that the sky and landscape peek through the gaps, as if his whole life was bigger than he could possibly have predicted.

Conflicts like the one around race and religion are an arena to slog through our obsession with being right or better. It is the same ugly snake that slithers into marriage. Relationships erode under the winds of dominance, just like whole peoples do. 


Love, 
Lori

Caring for Marriage