Marriage Moats-Three Years Today

Published: Fri, 03/29/13


Marriage Moats Caring for Marriage

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Three years ago today marriage moats began. The name came from a conversation with Benjamin, who loves moats and how they protect against bad guys. I can still picture him laughing as he told me about culprits splashing in the water with alligators. 
 
Protecting marriage is not a one time event, I have noticed. Efforts in 2010 served me then but do not create immunity in 2013. That's annoying.
 
Last spring, or perhaps the one before, I completely organized my sewing room. It was a mammoth job but I loved the space I got when it was done. Not only that I found lots of forgotten fabrics. But now it is a jungle of piles again, and I every time I give myself a deadline I wiggle around it. Probably the efforts I made months ago will make the job ahead less ominous. But I still gotta show up to do it.
 
I am building up momentum. Even telling you this helps fortify my willpower. I will clean the sewing room. I will. 
 
I will also write another moat tomorrow. 
 
 
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