The Defense Department is interested in helping couples cope with long term separation, such as when one of them is deployed. It turns out that puppy pictures do. 

The researchers showed the participants their partner's picture next to adorable ones, like baby beagles, over a period of weeks. There was a control group whose photographs were linked with neutral images, such as buttons. 

The director was admittedly surprised. Good feelings consistently rubbed off on those whose spouse was paired with something furry. I guess it works like osmosis. 

Many folks have framed pictures of their wife or husband on their desk, or on the wall. The question is, how often do they tap into the energy stored there? It is cheaper than therapy, and apparently limitless. 

Perhaps another source of good feelings would be to spend those minutes not only gazing, but bringing to mind your partner's good qualities. Naming them, out loud even. 

"He is a good provider."

"She is a loving mother."

"He makes me laugh."

"She stayed by me through a rough job change."

It sounds like a good use of a few minutes if only because it could replace the time I waste finding fault.