Marriage Moats- Words with No Sound

Published: Sat, 01/22/22

Marriage Moats

Caring for Marriage

Words with No Sound
Photo: Stephen Conroy   

Before caller i.d. it was fun to answer the phone and be curious. Sometimes it would take but a single word for me to know whether it was my mother, or John, or Lukas.  I would be hard pressed to tell you how I could differentiate the timbre in their voices. Yet each is distinct. 

This week in church the minister read a passage about how truth without love within it is like speaking words devoid of sound. The intonation and breath is what brings syllables to life. Without affection, truth is an empty shell. Like watching a concert with subtitles, but mute. Or conversation in a vacuum.

I have heard people experiment with uttering the same word with a spectrum of feelings. 

Ready?

READY!

ready...

ready

The potential for meaning is broad indeed. I would do well to remember that the substance of what I speak to those I care about is nestled in the musicality of my voice, rather than merely the definitions. 


People do their thinking based on some love. Take away the love: can they think anything at all? It is exactly the same as taking the sound out of speech. If you take away the sound, can you say anything at all?
True Christianity 388, Emanuel Swedenborg 

Love, 

Lori